Pain. Everyone gets hurt, and obviously it pains. Pain is like a weakness. It can break you, if you let it overcome. Pain is something you can’t stop, something which isn’t in your hands.
“Pain is inevitable but the suffering is optional,” this means so much. Pain can’t be stopped. It can’t be removed or cured by some therapy or a doctor, it’s not an illness.
Pain is something which holds you back from all the joys and laughter in your life. And you, yes you, are the only person who can get away with it. Not your best friend, not your mother, no-one’s going to help you get out of it. Like I said, the pain is something that can’t be removed but the suffering. It pains, but why suffer?
Sitting in your room, thinking about what went wrong why it hurts so much, letting the pain overcome you, letting it take control of your body, you can make all that go away. Don’t suffer, don’t think about it. Move on with your life. Forget the past, its history. Think about the future, the new opportunities in life, how the past never really mattered. You can’t change what’s already done so get over it.
And I know all this is easier said than done, but at some point you have to realise that this is for your good and betterment and it will only lead to you coming out as a better and more stronger person.
Search for more opportunities in life, things that make you happy and make you want to live with yourself because in the end you’re the only one that’s going to be there to take care of you.
Trust me when I say this, when you get older and more mature you’ll be laughing at these things, wondering why you ever let the pain conquer you, it’ll all make you wonder how immature you would have been to cry over this pain.
So be you. Be Happy with who you are because like I’ve said before you’re amazing and you get through it all. Carpe diem, because you’ll never ever have this moment back again. Value it.
Also this is now going to be a joint blog with one of my really close friends.
Chahat and Ana x